Millions of men have this very question lingering in the front of his mind. Many more have allowed this question to springboard from the tips of their tongues.
I have had this conversation with lots of men after hearing just a few details about his behavior, and I would like to share the gist of how these conversations usually unfold.
Q: Is she cheating on me?
A: Of course she is.
- How can you be so sure?
A: Because listening to you, I can see that you have one, some, or all of the following symptoms:
- You’ve cheated on her
- Your’re Insecure
- Your’re a bully
- You are too controlling
- You have feminine behavior
- You have poor hygiene
- What should I do?
- There is only two things that I recommend.
- What are they?
- Change or Congratulate.
- I understand changing, but what exactly do you mean by congratulate?
- Congratulate your woman and her new man.
By the time a man is questioning his woman’s fidelity, he already knows the answers surrounding this question. Not only does he know that the answer is yes, he knows the reasons that it’s yes. He is simply asking because he wants and needs to talk about it or is in denial and is seeking more confirmation.
If she were not cheating on him, he would be pretty sure that she was not. The reason I say pretty sure is because there is no real way to know if she is. If you are asking this question, the reason you are asking is because you know that you have probably given her reason(s) to cheat on you.
Take a look at the symptoms that I have listed, and if you fit into any of these categories, then I would definitely say that the answer is undoubtedly yes or soon will be yes. If any of these six things is something that you did not exhibit or a secret kept at the start of your relationship but is now speaking loud and clear, then the answer is absolutely yes.
If you love your woman and want to keep her to yourself I suggest that you take my last two answers seriously.
I know that nobody is perfect and we all need a little help at times. If you have any question on how to achieve a faithful relationship with your woman that will feel great and be great, ask (make ask a link) the one bias woman who knows the right answers or take it a step further and help yourself even more by grabbing my Why She Cheats and How She Get’s Away With It. I would like to know your thoughts on why women cheat. Drop a comment, give me your own personal advice, and give all of us something to think about. Until the next topic… Let’s chat!